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#52009 01/14/00 03:53 PM
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Today I talked to my husband. I was crying and he knew something was bothering me. I finally told him that I was unfaithful on several occasions. He said that he still wants me...I can't believe it....I was so terrified..I really think this website helped me to confirm that I needed help. I will need more support from all of you. There's more to my story. Thank you for your replies.

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It sounds as though your husband really loves you, although obviously some of your needs are not being met. Pls. start joint counseling. If you don't like your therapist, keep trying until you find one you do like.

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Danielle1313,<P>I'm happy for you!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>You're very lucky in the man you have!<BR>Remember that...<P>Get you and your H <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6020_needs.html" TARGET=_blank>"His Needs, Her Needs"</A> immediately...<P>If H desires to find out the "whys"... then read <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>"Surviving An Affair"(SAA)</A>...<P>Some of these you can get a the library too!<P>Good luck!<P>Jim

#52012 01/14/00 03:59 PM
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dont leave just yet Danielle!!!<P>The trip has just started. Please stay and learn.

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Good girl! If you've told all the truth, then NOW you can get to work building that wonderful marriage you both want!!<P>Keep on coming here, reading and learning. There's a lot to do yet.<P>Lori

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Danielle,<P>Good for you. Now the really hard work begins. You must figure out why this has been happening and correct it. This will not be an easy journey. Meanwhile, your H may need some help from you. He obviously loves you, but once the shock of your confession wears off, he will feel many emotions.<P>Stay here and read all sites that NSR has provided to you. Ask lots of questions of the people here. They are great. And finally, talk, talk, talk, with your H. You two need to communicate much better than you have in the past.<P>God Bless Both of You<P>JL


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