I guess I started to count my chickes before they hatched so to speak. My H had been home for six nights in a row almost a record. Then Saturday night he went out drinking and ended up with the OW. I found her phone number on his cell phone. He says he wasn't with her but I have heard all of this before. Well he didn't come home that night and Sunday afternoon was going with the guys for a ride on their 4 wheelers. Left at one still not back at dark. One of the guys he was with was home so I called him and he told me my H was at the bar. So I went there and who did I meet on her way out the OW.. I didn't say a thing but I sure wanted to. When I went inside and found my husband he and the couple he was talking to said she hadn't been with them. Am I really suppose to believe she just happened to show up and then not talk to him. So unfortunately this morning I had to say something. How long am I suppose to put up with having my H publically flaunt this bimbo?? I think his friends are getting tired of being in the middle of the situation. He is definately making an a** out of himself when people see him with this bar braud. I told him that it must be an alcohol relationship because he really only sees her when he is drinking or in a bar. Maybe that is his problem. But he keeps coming home to me and hasn't moved in with her. Why if he wants her so bad. How can I make him see the light of day short of a 2x4.