I guess that my stepson as decided to stay on for another year. My husband wants him to stay,and I just have to accept it. My husband says that he accepted my son, so I should accept his...The only difference is, he didn't have his son living with him when we were married, and I was never given the consideration of discussing it before hand. Now I have to deal with a 12 yr old that prefers blue hair,a heavy alternative group that sings of incest,and death, and hate, and a pierced toungue.<BR>This is exactly what I want to avoid with my own children...and I know I cant keep them in a bubble from the world....but I didn't need this influence walking through the door every day with them. I am beside my self, and no one can help me.<BR>I know this is betwen my husband and I....again..<BR>