I feel as though I have lost my husband. I have been doing everything for him and now he pushes me away. I have nothing without him. I love him so much but he has told me that he's not sure what love means or even sure he loves me anymore. I have found out that he is having (in my opinion) a cyber love affair with a woman online. I have seen chat logs that show him telling her that he loves her. This has gone from being just online, to her calling our home to talk to him. <BR>I can't do anymore for him because as it is now, I do everything...meals, laundry, work, kids, bills, yard work...<BR>I have made a counseling appointment for myself to see if it is something about me that can be fixed. I have tried to get a marriage counselor, but they are booked 3 months out. I am afraid my marriage will be over in less time than that. I'm not sure he will even go.....What do I do???

Jacinda,<P>It sounds as though you are doing all that you can to be a loving wife to your husband. If he really is emotionally involved with this online friend then your best bet is to back off a little. I have come to find that if you pressure or smother him too much at this point it may only drive him to her. <P>Also, since your relationship has a form of "infidelity" even if it is online, you may want to post your thoughts in the Infidelity section. I find more people read this area and are much more open with suggestions that have been very helpful.<P>Good luck.

\<p>[This message has been edited by HollyAnn (edited July 07, 1999).]

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