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D and I have been together for 18 years. There is so much negativity and so little trust in our marriage at this point. We don't communicate anymore. We used to stay awake and talk all night....until the sun came up. That hasn't happened in a long time. The love is still very strong. How can we get back to where we were? HELP!!!!! We don't want it to end like this.<P>------------------<BR>

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A few suggestions to your posting --- you probably need some third party intervention --- a minister or counselor. My husband and I got to a point where we were pleasantly tiptoing around each other but not really enjoying each other's company -- which would usually last until some crisis came up that needed our attention and then we'd be at each other's throats over how to solve it. A third person can help spark the conversation and help you figure out what he's feeling and what you're feeling. Another suggestion is to either write him a letter and ask him to return the favor --- or start by writing all of your thoughts on the relationship in a journal. That will help you sort through it all. Good luck and I hope this helped!<BR>


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