I am having indirect conflict with my husband's mother. It has started several months ago with our visit with them. She had asked me my father financial status and how he spent his money. I felt uncomfortable. With respect towards my husband, I walked away & went to the room. My husband was confused. The next conflict was a talk with me by her about my niece who had two children at a young age and without marriage. She was very judgmental and ugly about and told me that my niece will have have more children and it will be so sad. I told her that people make mistakes and she has learned by it. I felt she was fishing for information. The third conflict was when she had asked my husband while talking about 40l k plan if I had one as well. I believe this came up because I am recently unemployed due to a head injury several years ago. See, there is a pattern here. The conflict is that I comfort my husband to tell her that I do not feel comfortable with these questions, but he ignores it and never says anything to her. Help! Its putting stress in our marriage. Do you think she is doing it on purpose or is she money hungry?

Linda