My H and I have been having problems. Basically the only problem we really have is his lying. It is a huge issue with me. His recent lies were small but still hurt just as much.<BR>He wants to adopt children and we were already approved and the homestudy is done. <BR>Yet I fear the lies may not end. It really makes me feel very insecure. His lies started when we met, it is just I never knew he lied until a month after the marrige. Most of it was about financial issues. He made himself to sound great when in reality he filed bankruptcy and just didn't ever tell me. He told me he had money and we would build a big house... yada yada yada. Well I posted my story in the Emotional topic.<P>Now I was suppose to go to a breakfast on the 17th of July to meet caseworkers for this adoption. These kids are special needs ones. I just haven't been able to send in anything to them saying I was coming or anything.<P>I do have four children from a previous marriage, but my hubby has a dream of at least raising a baby. So where do I go from here?<P>I want my marriage to work. A few days ago I couldn't say that because I was still upset.<P>What do you think?