My husband and I have been together for 10 years now and married for 6. He left at the beginng of last month, saying that he was no longer happy in our marriage. I questioned him and he told me that there was no one else and that he still loved me. He also told me that he knows without a doubt that I love him. He's just not happy.

We have had some problems with my family and I think that has a lot to do with his leaving. Also, in the past year I've taken several trips with some of my girlfriends. He has know told me that it really bothered him that I had went. Since the first trip last June, we really started having more problems.

Slowly, we both started shutting down. He has told me that if he had to make a decision right now he would file for a divorce. I have asked him to give us some time to see if we can work things out and he has agreed.

I want to make him happy again. He feels that he's giving me more than enough chances and just doesn't know if things will ever change. I've prayed everyday since he has left for God to bring him back home. I love him and want our marriage to work out.

Is there any advice that you can give me to help bring him home? My best friend keeps telling me to give up and move on. But I believe that as long as there is love there is hope. I want to put our marriage on the right track. Please help if you can. I just need to know what I can do to turn his heart around and have him come home.

<small>[ August 06, 2003, 08:55 AM: Message edited by: mybush6 ]</small>

mybush6
Welcome... I'm sorry for your pain.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
This is a good place to get good advice.

Start by READING READING LEARNING LEARNING... the info here.... DR. Harley has a VERY high success rate...in the 90% range saving marriages...

Read all you can then come back and post... you'll learn quicker that way...

It's usually about needs.. so read His needs Her Needs... first....

YOU CAN DO THIS!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> GOOD LUCK AND PRAYERS FRANK

"ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH GOD"

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