Well, last night I did something I wanted to do instead of what H likes.<P>I CUT MY HAIR!!!!<P>Boy! Does it feel BETTER!!!!<P>I grew my hair out because H has always wanted me to have longer hair. He always complained that I looked like a boy riding with him. <P>Anyway, my hair has become a major pain in the butt, because I just do not look good with the "blow dried" look. My hair has absolutely no body, and will not hold a set without rolling (hot rollers/curling irons don't last)<P>Besides, it really bugs me that my H has b****ed about my short hair, when the OW wears her hair the very same way I wore it when H was b****ing about it.<P>He also b****ed about my smoking, but OW smokes like a freight train.<P>Anyway, I cut my hair after H went to bed, and he actually did notice what I did to myself this morning! Even said it looks good! <P>I'm trying to make myself happy, and if he wants to come along for the ride, that's wonderful, but if not.....who needs 'im?<P>It seems like doing out-of-character stuff that makes H sit up and take notice works better for me.<P>Just gotta figure out what crazy thing to do next. <P>

Woo Hoo Sweetpea You go girl!!!!!<P>I am glad you did something for YOU. I am dealing with another upset of sorts today-so not having the best day but not having a real bad one either.<BR>I bet your hair looks great................when I get ready to have mine cut I will call you <P>*heartache*

It's funny how you mention how the OW looked. I noticed the same thing. H would always make jokes when I had my hair cut short. But this woman's hair was almost as short as our son's and from what I hear the big joke is that she NEVER does it, that it always looks a mess. Also, i keep my nails NATURALLY long and H would tease about me having Lee's Press-On nails when friends would compliment me on how i keep up with them (I don't do artificials, sorry hon)! And this OW has those long-[censored] nails that look TACKY!!! Things like that strike me to be funny! Have to show him I am the REAL DEAL!

Hi Sweetpea -<P>GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!<P>I did the same thing a couple of weeks ago - even took it a step further and colored it!!!!!<P>Felt great!!!!!<P>Keep doing things that make you happy and your happiness will be catchy!!!<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba<P>