Dear Quipper, got all the information on Ceasar. You stated that I was not specific enough with what I am trying to get at. Here goes...If a person is committed and in love with his/her spouse, why is there a need to find that "thrill"? I can't believe that someone of "his" stature, who has it all would want to throw it away, for some momentary thrill? It is impossible for me to believe that a man can love his spouse/lover whatever and be in love. To be in love means just that, you regard the other person first, before your wants and needs. Granted that they would be met and not neglected. There is safety in the multitude of council, so shall I proceed with the majority rule on MB. Thanks,

Dear Estelle,

Use your independent judgement regardles of majority or minority opinions.

Love is a part of life, but some have missions that supercede love. To understand the superceding missions, read SCIENCE OF SURVIVAL, by L. Ron Hubbard, ($55.00)

Covert Hostility believes that people can be fooled, and seek to prove it in many ways. Adultery is just one. They also fool people by weaving in imperceptable lies into a number of verifiable factual statements, and pitt others around them, against each other, through artful back stabbing.

The fact that you cannot understand how people commit adultery indicates that you are a highly positive person. That is great. But there are many people who can smile politely to your face, but who really believe the world is a hopeless place, a place where bad things happen to good people, and where many people do things for which they deserve substantial punishment.

Best of luck

Quipper
Married 28 years and still struggling