I want to thank you all for taking time to reply to me. In a way, this has brought some closure, as weird as that sounds. When I first heard the news, my first reaction was, "Oh no, now his life is more messed up than ever." That is his concern now, not mine. I especially appreciate all the support you have given me on how I have handled my children. As I said, I'm sure I've made mistakes, but I have tried to be a solid and stable parent to them throughout this whole mess. <P>Distressed, <BR>I especially want to reply to your post. What you have done to keep their father in your children's lives is remarkable, more than I was able to do. I know you feel as if you have sacrificed yourself in the process, but your unselfishness is a wonderful thing. Your H will have to remember the efforts you have made someday and I'm sure your children will. You have shown a lot of courage and I hope life will bring you the rewards you deserve.<P>I hope none of you have to come to the point that I have, but if you do, remember you can get through it. I will never be the same person I was before this, but when I compare my life to the way it was a year ago, I know that I will survive and be happy. Then, I wasn't so sure. My children and I are still a family and nothing can ever take that away from me. God bless you all.<P>AD