OK, OK someone hit me with a bat or something QUICK!! I feel a little OPTIMISM coming on!! A little HOPE (What's that??) a little FAITH?? (NOT THAT PLEASE!!)<P> Well, I just posted that my W broke a 37 day code of silence by leaving a message of Happy Fathers Day. <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum34/HTML/000443.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum34/HTML/000443.html</A> <BR> She also took the opportunity to "inform" me that she just bought her "dream" vehicle. Ok big deal right??<BR> WELL, SHE CALLED TODAY AGAIN!!<BR> SWEET AS PIE, nothing happening, how are you doing? I'm fine love my new car.....<BR> WHAT????<BR> Wanted to make sure you got my Happy Fathers day and to tell you (she said it at least three times during the TWO HOUR CONVERSATION!! TWO HOURS???) What a GREAT Father you are. WHAT???? And she was telling me about buying the car and said things like "I thought about what YOU would say and I said it and it worked" I told the dealer (a friend) "I don't hate Frank and he doesn't hate me" "I could call him right now and he'd help me" "I thought about how you would do this and did it.... etc.... Told me about how she said "I don't hate Frank" at least three times.<P> THEN THE REALLY WEIRD STUFF...<BR> Told me "someone" told her I was "Seeing someone" I told her whoever told her that was a liar. Wouldn't tell me WHO so I figured she was "digging" and brought it up again and she said the "person" just ASSUMED I MUST be (been 9 months +) I told her although I was lonely I didn't want to "See" anyone else..<BR>She told me she has been off ALL her meds for THREE MONTHS!! Now the doctor tells her she is MASSIVE into menopause and changed her meds.<BR> <P> OK THE REALLY REALLY weird stuff!!<BR> She told me she changed her shift and she works 3-11 now. <BR> When she comes home there's this "Church" program on and it made her realize things she "Wished she knew a LONG time ago" <P> ME: "Like what"? She didn't answer right away so I asked again. Then I realized she was crying and she asked me to wait a minute. <P>THEN she told me this "It said how if you want Satan out of your life all you have to do is order him out of your life in Jesus' name!! WHY WOULD SHE RELATE TO THIS?? HUH?? It's like I wouldn't relate to someone telling me that it's fun to torture innocent animals. You know? Is there FINALLY GUILT?? Is God softening her heart??<BR> There were a few other things because the call was so long but I asked her if she had any SIGNIFICANT dates coming up (Only LB) and she said "No why" I said nothing you had to circle on your calendar in July (other than the D Day) or August? Or September? She said "NO why are you asking me this"? A lie? Maybe my source was wrong about the upcoming marriage to OM? Maybe she changed her mind??<P> I'M SO CONFUSED!! PLEASE HELP!! (Hey that's my name again!! ) The little BBBBBBBB filled my Love Bank with ONE CALL. AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Why can't I hate her!!!????? TELL ME PLEASE!! GOOD LUCK & PRAYERS FRANK<P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>

Whoa, there Hoss!!! I know how badly you want things to work out, but don't get your hopes up so high that you come crashing down. It sounds as if she may be FINALLY seeing through the fog a little, but it still hasn't completely lifted. Just take it easy and NO PUSHING. I hope it really works out for you. You deserve it after all the crap you've been through. Take care.<P><P>------------------<BR>Blessed be.<BR>****************<BR>Keridwen<P>Keridwen_7@yahoo.com

Keridwen,<P> Yeah, your right I just got carried away. She called again today because our D was here and she had our Grandson. We laughed about his little antics and things. I just wish we could do it together. Thanks FRANK<P><P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>

sorry about the double post back to the top i NEED input PLEASE???? THANKS FRANK<P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>

WOW! That is one thing I've noticed. I can talk to my H until I'm blue in the face and he won't hear a word of it. Someone else can say the exact same things to him and he hears everyword. Maybe that's what's happening here. (fingers crossed).