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I just ran across this article in USA Today...<BR>...it's food for thought.<P><A HREF="http://www.usatoday.com/life/health/family/lhfam027.htm" TARGET=_blank> 'Hot' and 'cool' phases predict divorce</A><P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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Jim,<BR>That is kind of scary. I would say I had a "cool" marriage and we ended up divorcing after 15 yrs of marriage. I think my x's midlife crisis had a lot to do with it too.<BR>Bob
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Interesting, We definately had a cool marriage most of the time. H is definately going through mid-life crisis now.<P>Jill
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I have read some of Gottmans books and I am not quite sure how EMA fit into the picture. He doesnt adress EMAs specifically.<P>One of his predictors of if a marriage will work is if you have a memory of past good times with your spouse. Now we all know about memory loss in affairs, so I am not sure if that is fits with his predictors or not.<BR>Lora
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