<BR>Hi everyone!<BR>I am excited to find this site.<BR>I think it is truly great how <BR>everyone can get together and share.<BR>It's kinda like group therapy....<BR>but in your own time and at your convenience.<P>My husband and i are trying to work things out.<BR>We've had some exspecially hard issues to deal with and we are both very proud people.<P>But I have never felt more alive than when I am with him. So here we are trying things out. We've experienced a lot of the same issues in this site. Mind you I haven't read through the entire site, but eventually maybe this will give me some new ideas.<P>Does anyone have advice to give to cope with old issues?<P>My take of coarse is that , if you can not get over a past event then your sabotaging a potential future.....and you'll throw the event in your spouses face and ruin even a friendship.<P><BR>

I felt the same way when my ex of all people told me about this site. <BR>I guess that is wonderful that your trying to move ahead and not look back. That was always one of my biggest problems. I try my best and i change a little everyday. It isn't always always easy though. I have tried to look at things from his perspective to see how he was feeling. Once i do that then i find i express myself better. Anyways give it a try.<P>Good luck.

I would suggest praying alot for your spouse! I find that when you pray for the other to have what you truely want some how the resentment, anger go away and leaving room for forgiveness.<P>I don't believe we should forget as this will provide some guidence in the future!<P>Best wishes and I will pray for you!

I would suggest praying alot for your spouse! I find that when you pray for the other to have what you truely want some how the resentment, anger go away and leaving room for forgiveness.<P>I don't believe we should forget as this will provide some guidence in the future!<P>Best wishes and I will pray for you!