What do you do when, amongst other problems, you wife expresses that she feels like she got married too young and didn't get enough time on her own? What am I supposed to say to that?

Hi, I am there with you, we got married when I was 21yrs (only by one month) and he was just 25yrs, 22yrs on and he wants to do his own thing!! two kids 17 and nearly 20, this is when we should be having our time but not the oldest swinger in town he wants the good life, because wait for it I am boring and only talk about the kids and work or friends he is not interested in, they were our friends before, he went to university started to mix with young people and this 47yr onld man thinks he is one!!! I am having to live with this until after christmas so as not to upset anyone, well I can assure you I thought no one could cry as much as me, and now I have to pull myself together!! oh yeh, I am sure you will understand how that is the last thing you need to hear. So the moral of all this stuff I have just flung at you, no mater how long you have been together if someone feels they do not want to be there then they have to have something to hang it on, sorry to be so brutal but that seems to be the thing. I hope you can work this is, do you have kids, how long have you been married? <P>I send you love and loads of hugs for all the c**p you are going through.<P>Karen