I have been post under the infidelity section the past month but I just thought I would tell all my friends here that I received the D papers Saturday. I was okay though-I do not want it over but there is no more I can do-I have Plan A'd my butt off (literally-no butt left folks!!) and I have been under Plan B for awhile now. H has not even given me a sign that he is coming back or will-he has not even looked at me or asked about me since the day he left, Nov 10th, 2000. H is moving in with OW -he has already changed his address on credit cards and such. H came and packed some stuff last Saturday-could not finish because he got sick (literally). Anyways keep me in your thoughts and prayers all. I will continue posting in the other section because I still have some hope.... <p>[This message has been edited by Trs (edited February 27, 2001).]