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Last night I was finally able to get my Plan A letter to my H. I told him I love etc, told of my responsibilities for not meeting his needs and I still have hope for us and our marriage. I also told him that I have contacted my attorney and stopped the divorce. I did so because I don't want a divorce nor do I believe in it and I can not go thru with a divorce that I INITIATED. <P>He didn't say anything other than Good night and talk to you later and left to go ???(as usual). So I guess the ball is in his court now and I will continue Plan A and if he files for divorce, then of course I can't stop it but I will be able to hold my head up in front of the world and most of all to my children(5,3,2). <P>I am still scared to death.<P>Hopelessmom

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Good for you. I know that it is important to think that you have tried everything so that if it doesn't work out that your mind will be a little clearer. The plan A is hard and I wish you the best of luck. For those precious children I will be praying. I hope that the Lord grants you patience and grants your husband clarity.<P>God Speed,<P>Love, Bill

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He called this am to check on my son(he has been ill) and to tell me about their dinner last night. No mention of letter or anything. hE said he'd talk to me later (that doens't really mean he will talk to me it really means goodbye)<P>Thanks for your prayers.<BR>HOpelessmom


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