Darla and Frankie.....<P> Other post getting so long started this one hope don't mind. I too am not sexually attracted to my partner. Its been months for us too. In fact the last time we tryed what a disaster that was. I am like you though I cannot fake feelings. I think sex is a precious moment between two people who love each other or feel ver deeply for each other. And to me being attracted to them sexually to really enjoy it also. Well that is how I feel about sex. I miss that part of my life more then I can say. Funny I am a attractive thin lady and in the past was not as thin so did not feel as good about myself. Now I cannot enjoy the sex. Boy I can actually say this is not fair to me. Its really hard for me like Frankie to pretend you are enjoying when deep down you know your not. Well just had to get my input in on this subject. Keep all the respones coming please.<BR>

wonder, reads like you've got your situation pretty well wrapped up. the big question though is this, what are you going to do about it? i suggest you accept the problem and stop second guessing yourself. in other words, you seem to have gotten you problem defined. i suggest you now start thinking of what action you're going to take. taking action will not be easy. i will give you a sense of direction and resolution. you'll be moving on, if only by taking baby steps. you'll be encouraged by moving toward happeness. good luck. i on your side.