I have just finished speaking my kids and Im so p@@t off I just need to vent.I have been waiting now for four weeks for a proposal from my W attorneys and still no word.<BR>It just cant understand why this is happening. My W wanted this divorce because of this OM but why cant she just hurry up with her demands and get this divorce over and done with. It reminds me of children when they catch a crab , They will first pull the legs off one by one before killing it.<BR>Does she want to see how much pain she can inflict on me ?<BR>Why do her friends keep on sending me emails on how I am doing am I alright ? these are her new friends not mine.<P>I know my youngest son age 5 is innocent , but every time I phone him he mentions this uncle **** is taking them on holiday or his doing this or that with them, I respond by saying I HPOE YOU HAVE FUN , or That’s nice, but inside Im dying. What right has this man got to come into my life and take everything that I VALUE and built up over the last ten years and claim it as his own.<P>Also what values has my wife got to bring this man into my own home and we not even Divorced.<BR>She is shi??ing on her on Door step.<P>I need to take my anger out on something now .<BR>I think its time for another two hour workout after work ,ooooh shhhh another 3 hours to wait , I just cant handle this anymore , someone please help <BR>

I also want to smack around the OW for taking my h away from his kids. Or at least making it nice and cosy for him to do so. I hate her, but it takes two.<P>You sound like me today, so saorry we have to go through this. Others told me they are there for me. Even in my own pain I am there for you too. It's not much I know. But it helps to come here and let it all out.<P>You're in S.A. Where? I'm in Jo'burg. So is Pantha.<P>

Nina,<P>I know that it takes two, but this OM new that she was married and had children, what sort of person can have this on their conscious that they have broken up a family. As for my W , I really thought that I knew her after 10 years of marriage. Wow what an assumption I made.<P>For my own Sanity I have tried to block my W out of my life. She has cheated on me and the kids, all she cares about is her own feelings. I could go on and on , but this will not help me . I have given up hope on her<BR>I am als sorry we have to go through this.<BR>Whats up with this world ? everyone going insane with all this divorce and cheating doesnt make sense.<P>oh Im also in JHB<P>

There must be something in our drinking water.....<P>My h's OW was my friend, knows he has kids, but does she care? <P>I have given up today, too.

I propose we have a WS's convention where everybody can come for coctails and cyanide.

lol,lol!<P>I'd prefer an OP convention, where we get to mix their drinks!!!<P>I want my h ALIVE!!!