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I haven't posted before on this board, I was posting under GQII but now we are divorcing... i gave it my best shot. He left with bimbo he only knew for two weeks. After trying to recover from OW #1 in 1999. Sorry guys, not a lostva story here. I am kicking myself for doing this mb stuff for over a year. for what? only to be kicked again. I realize I am not helping anyone here, so I will go. Thanks for all the support and advice over the last year. Hey, Medic, if you read this... yes it is over.
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Joined: May 1999
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Hey Eyes!!!hehe,<p>Sorry to hear of the impending D, but, I don't think you wasted a year on this "MB stuff" Believe it or not you have grown. We all have. Hey, no Lori/lostva story here either. It's much better than I could have ever hoped for. Met someone here on the board [not what either of us were looking for at the time] and life couldn't be better for me. Everything is great.<p>I hate to say this, but, time does heal all wounds. I look back and can't believe the misery that I went thru [actually allowed myself to feel] when first finding out about the A.<p>Life begins again after a D. I'm living proof.<p>And, one last thing, you are not allowed to leave. Zippy has spoken.<p>Wishing us all the Best.<p>Tim [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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You are allowed to be anger, and I understand the feeling of wasting time, especially when you didn't get what you wanted. I don't think it could have been a waste look how much you have learned and how far you have come. yes I know it feels like you got kicked again, I look at it as though maybe we need a kick to help us realize we are ok either way and to keep us growing, you are the better person for doing all you did here, take a few breathes and come back and share with others we need experienced people to help here.
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