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Does anyone have the psychological reason why my husband does the following: Within the past couple of weeks, I have doing quite a bit of home improvement, i.e., redecorating, removing clutter, etc. Why did he comment that all I do is "fix the curtains". And when I do the grocery shopping, I always ask him what he needs.<BR>He always replies with, "I don't need anything." So why did he make the comment during an argument, "I needed soap. You just shop for yourself." Am I just too sensitive? I feel so belittled when he talks to me in this way. Is he trying to make feel this way because he feels inadequate himself? I'd appreciate any input. Thank you.
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There are so many reasons he could be doing anything that I just don't know where anybody would start.<P>Based on what you said though, I wonder if maybe he feels neglected or unimportant. I don't base this on what he is doing, but instead on the items in your own behavior you felt compelled to justify. The answer is often already in our own questions.<BR>
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