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Sure wish someone would answer this.
#71692 11/01/99 07:27 PM
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Does anyone have the psychological reason why my husband does the following: Within the past couple of weeks, I have doing quite a bit of home improvement, i.e., redecorating, removing clutter, etc. Why did he comment that all I do is "fix the curtains". And when I do the grocery shopping, I always ask him what he needs.<BR>He always replies with, "I don't need anything." So why did he make the comment during an argument, "I needed soap. You just shop for yourself." Am I just too sensitive? I feel so belittled when he talks to me in this way. Is he trying to make feel this way because he feels inadequate himself? I'd appreciate any input. Thank you.
Re: Sure wish someone would answer this.
#71693 11/01/99 08:36 PM
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There are so many reasons he could be doing anything that I just don't know where anybody would start.<P>Based on what you said though, I wonder if maybe he feels neglected or unimportant. I don't base this on what he is doing, but instead on the items in your own behavior you felt compelled to justify. The answer is often already in our own questions.<BR>

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