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Well, my husband agreed to 5 months of trying, as we speak he is on the phone with the OW. I can just imagine what is being said. He will try, go to the MB weekend and do the twelve weeks,if the program and God has not made him love me then he can file for divorce, I won't because I don't believe in it. He said he has always viewed us as platonic...I can't believe the lies that he is convincing himself of. Or she is. Pray, pray hard for me, and any advice would be great, I have a feeling that he is looking at this like a prision sentence. Any spouses that have felt like him and changed? ANYTHING!?

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Can't give you much with this one, but I will put you on my little list! Would you like to be prayed for in the morning or before bed? I'll just do both. Good luck.

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Hopefully he will cut all contact with OW and make an honest effort for you, I am afraid if he see;s it as a sentence he will not truely try, the good thing is you have a chance to turn things around, good luck, I am praying for you.

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Thank you for your comments. I agree about the sentence statement, I am praying for divine intervention on that part. justthewife, could you please contine to do both? I am praying a wall of fire around him. I am aslo praying a hedge of thorns around the OW and that she turn back to her family.
Thank you again.
P.S. Do I stay here, or go to the recovery forum?

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Why not try recovery for the heck of it, they will be going thru some of the same stuff you are, but you can always peek in here whenever you want.


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