called X to make sure he was going to sign off on the house, Judge gave me the house it sold within 2 weeks, but Judge hasnt signed D papers yet. X said NO his Lawyer told him not to? I told him we had moved our stuff to a rental locker & will be moving into a furn. rental this weekend. He could care less, our 13 yr old son even ask Dad just for me sign, he still said NO he had to listen to his Lawyer. Our son is heartbroken another lie from Dad. X is now saying MOW & him are closer than ever because I D him & its my because of me he is in love with her? This man needs to take a long hard look at the last year, what he has done & see what he is still doing to his son. Our son finially told Dad what he calls MOW the "B" word. X thought he would accept her as his new Wife with no problems, our son sees her as the woman who took his Dad away & hurt his mother. His true colors finally came out about taking Son's college money, MOW has no money, he needs to help her with her 3 kids she is broke, her H works at CSX making good money & she works as a LPN full time what happen to their money? her house was run down, inside looked bad nothing nice, she drives a new Dodge truck, X told her before the split up about all the money he had, I had already heard this from other nurses, MOW was telling all her friends she had a guy with money, thats a joke the coffee X was bring her & other nurses was free from the stores around here because he was a cop & the dinners were half off, the money was our son's college, 80% of household items came from thrift stores, my cloths from 17 1/2 years of marriage came from there so did the shirts he is wearing now. Only 2 vactions, I can count the dinners out on one hand. I only bought mark-down meats to make ends meet so we could save for our son. Lets see if MOW will do that, her H said no way their biggest problem in their marriage was her spending money she didnt have. X is mad at me for what? not wanting a man who is in love with another woman. X should be happy now he is free to be with her & her 3 kids this is what he wanted, he needs to let go & let us live our lives. Its almost like he's mad because me & my son are taking charge of our lives & are going to make it without him. I have to give God that credit & hope X starts going to church or at least start praying asking God to help him with his angry.
M-17 1/2 yrs.
C-13, 28, 7 yr old GD
D-3-18-02
A- His friends saying 2-3 years could be longer
MOW
M-10 yrs
C-3 small
D-pending
A- her co-workers saying he is not the 1st.

Miss T,<p>your H behavior displays the desire for control over others, (his environment), and the lack of responsibility for his actions (his person).<p>this behavior is indictive of an emotionally immature, or disorder person, or one that i strying to repeat the past as he was a victim in the past and now wants to perpetrate in the present as either how he learned or how he wants revenge. . . .<p>so don't take this all personally, as hard as it is, the actions are not about you, but about him. . . <p>remember, in life, we can do anything we want too, as long as you take responsibility for its outcome. . . . so as long as you take responsibility for what is your and yourself, you will be fine. .. . .<p>the motto from my undergraduate?<p>ACTA NON VERBA<p>care to guess the translation?<p>wiftty