not sure what is wrong with X he left home to be with MOW. Got nasty letter from him yesterday saying he is now back to making our son see him every other weekend like D-papers gave him. temp orders 13yr old only wanted to see his dad on sunday only x agreed to this, last sun X told son that if he only wanted to be with him on sun only he would agree with it. now x changed his mind again this is only hurting our son & making him not want to see dad. never thought about his actions before, sometimes they were child-like & silly. had to go to the base yesterday, was stopped at main gate & told that I didnt have a base sticker, it was there a month ago. hadnt noticed that someone scrap it off. I can still use the base as long as my son is with me. Im now worried about x actions. only thing X has to be mad about is that Judge wrote in our final D-papers that his personal relationship with MOW is the reason for our breakup. MOW D is this month, MOW H already has a copy of our D-papers. Ive had friends tell me that h is doing this because he is not happy with his new life. x lives with MOW seen out in town with her & her 3 kids, taken her to his new job telling everyone she is his girlfriend they should be happy. I always thought it was the spouse that got left & hurt that was resentful not the cheater. how do you make peace, told X that I dont hate him, & wish him the best with MOW. friends are warning me to watch him & his police friends, it may get worst.