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yesterday was 3 yr anniversary that my x walked out!

I can still remember the conversations we had prior to her leaving and my attempt at reconciliation on the 4th!

All she could say was how great om was, they could talk about anything, he was her soulmate, he always had money, blah, blah, blah!

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Hmmmm...and this stunning soulmate lasted a whole two years, right? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> It is AMAZING how lost in the fog they can get, isn't it??

Well, RWD, I don't know if "congratulations" are exactly correct etiquette, but I do know that you have come a LONG way since then, and you are doing so well. Your XW meanwhile is as mixed up as ever. So how about if I say, "I'm proud of you...good job!"? Will that do??

I think some sort of celebratory cake is in order, don't you? heehee <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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RWD,

That's the problem with solemates, eventually they get worn out (or scraped off...).

Happy fourth!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Three years for me this August...

...3 years where I can say I've grown!

...3 years (seems like more) of regression for xW!

Prayers to you Bob.

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Bob,

Life does go on. How was the trip to Toronto??

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July the 4th is the 1st anniversary of the official divorce and more than 2yrs of separation!
I still see the "soulmates" and their baby together, no signs of braking these chains, just opposite: my YD decides to live with them (OD returned after 1.5yrs).
You give me hope in every sense: recovery is possible-mean personal recovery and growth but have to admit that I hope he'll come to his senses one day.
You did great job, continue like that.
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