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OK so Wednesday we are going before a judge to get our divorce - it is uncontested so it should pretty much be over that day... then just the waiting period of 90 before it is totally final.. I am very sad.. I am not sure why he wants this divorce - Why he is throwing away everything - just so he doesn't have to answer to anyone and he can do what he wants when he wants... Now supposedly there is no other woman at this time - but the other woman lives next door - and I am just waiting for Thursday to come and him say well ok we are divorced now so I am going to be with her.. I would die.. How am I going to get over this??? I mean we are getting divorced and somewhere in my mind I am hoping that he comes home ?? I am not sure that is ever gonna happen??? I just don't understand what he is leaving us for - ?? Do they ever figure out that they have made a huge error??? Will I ever find anyone else to be happy with - or better yet will I ever trust anyone??? How long does it take a person to stop feeling married and start feeling divorced??? Does anyone have any ideas??? I need some help with this one??? Mimi
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i dont post much here...i just read alot and grab every bit of advise that i think might help me. its a wonderful place to be around. there are so many people that are going thru the same thing and its nice just to know your not alone in this world. your pain speaks to me so clearly. i can only pray for you that you are able to let go of him. once wednesday is over for you perhaps you can move on slowly and come to terms that you have ended a chapter in your life. move on to a new chapter. heal yourself. i pray for you peace of mind.
liz
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Liz - thank you very much for your post - I to hope I can let go and start a new chapter in my life - the hardest part is that with the children I will always be seeing him and it makes it hard... I don't know I just want it to be all over with but in another way I don't want the day to ever get here.... I know I will be ok - but this whole situation has really done a number on me.... Hopefully somewhere down the line I will find happiness again....
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