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My wife of 7 years doesn't have the feelings for me that she knows she needs to make our marriage work, and she doesn't know how to get them back. I have read and made the changes in myself that needed changing, but it hasn't made a difference. She won't do the things needed to make the marriage work until she has the feelings for me back, and I believe she won't get the feelings back until she starts to do the things needed for the marriage. What can we do?<BR>
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First of all, you would be better of posting in the Emotional Needs forum. Second, It is a common myth that when a spouse looses that lovin' feelin' that she/he needs to make changes. It is actually the other spouse that needs to change. I read that you perceive that you have made changes, and this might be a good start. However, i would venture to guess that they weren't the right changes. <P>Click on the concepts link above and read dr Harley's concepts. Then skip over to Dr. Mcgraws site and read his 10 relationship values. <BR> <A HREF="http://www.oprah.com/phil/rescue/phil_rescue_value.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.oprah.com/phil/rescue/phil_rescue_value.html</A> <P>See you again on the EN forum...
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