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Joined: Feb 2003
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Joined: Feb 2003
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Morning everyone. Well, I talked to my husband on the phone that last. He said he was doing better, things at work have been progressing. (He was diagnosed with depression) We started to talk idle chit chat, he said he missed me after I told him I missed him. We chatted some more, freindly chat anout what we ahve been doing ect. I told him I loved him but there was silence on the other end. I told him it was ok not to say as I know he loves me. I told him I put my wedding rings back on and asked if that was bad, he said no. Then he asked me if I wanted a coffee when he picks up our daughter on wed. I said sure and told him to go out and have some fun. He said see ya wed. and I said yup, bye bye. Am I just freaking out here cause he didn't say I love you?
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Joined: Sep 2002
Posts: 140
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when my H told me about MOW, he wanted out of our M that night, then the next day he wanted to try to make it. He never could say I Love You to me. If I ask him do you love me he would then say "yes I do". thats the only thing I could get out of him. Maybe if I had heard the words from him I would have try harder to make our M work. When I found out that he was still seeing MOW I gave up hope. I should have tried harder but I felt that H was already in love with MOW. both families are now D, my X & OW are engaged. Im going on with my life without him. Let your H tell you he loves you, dont beg like I did.
m-17 1/2 yrs
c-13, 29, 8gd
me-49, x43
d-5-02
ow-32
c-3 under 11
m-10yrs
d-7-02
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