We have all come so far. I m iss chatting with everyone though. Haven't seen anything from Brokenheartd in a while though.

Guess I feel alot like you about x's marriage, it shouldn't of happened as what to us shouldn't of happened. But.................it did!!

Think X rushed things so that the reason he put his kids and I thru all of this was justified. He kept telling me he was doing all of this because of his love for her!!!! Don't think that he found his soulmate. Think he acted on a "what could've been" "if only" thing!!!! There was a reason he didn't marry her 24 years ago!!!!

I still wonde why it is that he hasn't introduced his kids to her. The kids are at the point of being miffed.

The selfishness is so sad!!! That is what make me so angry sometimes.

I haven't even though about dating to be honest, but I have a pretty secluded life with my family around for the most part. Still weighing over 200 lbs probably doesn't make anyone rush for the phone!!! But that's ok!!!

Take care, let us have an update on how you are doing!!!

Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I think you are right on when you say that they get married to rationalize what they have done...I know that is why my ex is getting married. I wish them the best---not the way I would like to start a new marriage.

Take care---our time will come. Pat