She still does not admit that she has the OM, a friend of mine before the affair. Her co-workers and mutual friends tell me that they are together, and Alaska was one of the things I know he wanted to do, because he had been there on a trip with his parents when he was younger. She had been talking about going someplace warm...what happened to that?

I am feeling a little ashmed of myself, because I am feeling a bit unforgiving of her now...very sorry for that hopeful_person and jen brown.

We were married for 5 years, friends for years before that, and aquaintances for years before that...all gone down the toilet and to Alaska. What a shame.

Andy