W had a cookout Memorial day and invited her family. 14 Yr. old son asked if dad could come to W but she told him it's not gonna happen. He said "it's his house too" and she said we are not together anymore. She invited OM though and my 16yr. old daughter told me "Dad it was awful. She put on such a show! She looked like a little school girl, flirting with him. No one had a good time but them!!" I thank God that we instilled in our children some good christian moral values. And I even have my wife to thank for that cause she helped!!!!

Kids see through the phoney baloney. It is a shame that the spouse has to act so childish in a time when the kids are hurting and you are hurting, and the family. If she had a kind thoughtful heart, and a wanting to do what is best for everyone. She should of just had a cookout that was small and included you to come. There was no reason for this outlandish action on her part. It could be the insecurity, and deceit of a life that she is leading. After all, all the wayward spouses did find lust and lies in their relationship with the other person.

Keep your head on straight, and be the great dad and loving husband. It is hard when your spouse acts so childish and unthoughtful. I know, I have been experiencing some similar actions from my wayward spouse. Just put your heart in God, I slip about once every couple weeks. God will take care of me, and I will have a great life.