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Ive lived with my boyfriend for 5 yrs nowand weve had our ups and downs but now hes on the computer all the time. I know what hes doing (cyber sex) and ive asked him to stop. 3 times ive asked he keeps telling me he will and did but later i find out that he lied to me all of those times. im ready to leave him. i dont know what to do anymore. i fell that cs is a form of cheating. Please give me some advice!!!!
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Join him in it once and see what it is that is turning him on about it. <BR>
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My H was doing the same thing. Chances are that he won't do it with her there. He isn't even being honest about it to begin with. It is a fantasy world. Where you can be anyone you want. Yes, in my opinion cybersex is cheating. My H and the OW passed nude pics of each other back and forth. <P>He is probably into porn too. From what I understand about cybersex this goes hand in hand. If you can't get the truth out of him, you may have to resort to a program on the computer to "catch" him in the act. Spector is a good program. You can download it on the net and it's not detectable on the computer. Until you have proof in your hand he may still do this. I am also in another forum. It's on Yahoo! it's called anticybercheating. There are a lot of good people that are going through this there too. Search for cyber infidelity, cyber cheating, cyber affairs, etc. There is a lot of information out there for this now. According to my counselor this is one of the biggest issues that she is seeing right now. Cyber cheating. Take it very seriously. I don't mean to scare you but, I have been married for 19 years and my H and I are very much in love. I had no idea that he was doing this. He didn't think that it was cheating because he wasn't actually touching anyone. I beg to differ! There a lot of people on here that started out as cyber affairs and then turned into real life affairs. <P> This almost caused us to split up. We are in recovery now. After his counseling, my counseling, and our marriage counseling. I hope everything works out for you. Take care.<P>NM
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