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On the verge of tossing in the towel. Not sure that I'm really looking for much posting this particular message but thought it might be reassuring getting my thoughts out.
It's been going on 4 months since D-day & separation, 7 months since PA that I know of and probably over a year since things haven't been quite right in the M.
I just don't see any reason to remain and I have been feeling the desire to move on growing day by day. WW's actions still point to not wanting the M and I haven't felt like I'm married for quite some time.
It seems pointless and at this point I don't care like I used to. For the first 3 months since D-day I did what I could for myself and everything in between. Those efforts did great for me in knowing I have done what I could to try to make things work. Of course little has changed on WW's part.
I have little to no regrets in regards to at least making an effort to try. The only regret I would have if any would be not waiting around for even longer which is something I don't want to end up waiting forever on. You would think true love would wait for as long as it took, but considering the circumstances (WW's A) I don't see that happening.
She's coming to pick up her belongings this weekend and I will more then likely file after she does so. I guess I'm just mulling over my last reservations before going through with it.
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Good luck. I don't know what else to say. Unfortunately, we each have a limit. Unconditional romantic love is a myth. So is the beauty of waiting forever.
If you know you're done, I hope it goes well.
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