I posted for the first time a few days ago and you all have been so helpful. I think my husband may be going through a mid life crisis! Now What???? Below is what he wrote in an email today. Any advice? Thanks!<P>I know I need to talk to the kids and tell them what is up - problem is I do not really know what is up with me - I am just really screwed up. What you say is all true and you know what you are saying. I do not want the kids to leave, but I do not know if I am ready to continue to try - and I am just being honest right now - not wanting to hurt you which I know I am doing and that in itself hurts me too. I do not know what I am doing, but I do not know if I want to come home - I mean I want to come home and see you guys, but I just do not know - ???? I feel like my life is passing me by, but I know the important things are family, but I still feel like I do which makes me mad at myself - ahhhhhhh. <P>Thank in advance for your replies!!