Hi, As I have been going through the actual split with my wife, The lies, deceptions, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I have learned alot about how our emotions are stressed beyond normal resilience. I had made a post relating to your daily ritual of emptying your mind on this board. Now that I have walked in your shoes, I realize I may have been trying to give you advice in letting go, but forgetting the imense hurt Jethro brought to you. I apologize to you Peachy, if I sounded less than supportive. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />