I am now d'ed. 10TH March the final decree was granted. My W had stalled in the 3 yrs we were S.
She says she is happy with OM.
I haven't seen her for 15 months now. I gave her 2 concert tickets to see Brian Wilson on 2nd March in Bristol, UK. Not hand delivered sent them by post. She took her female friend and rang me during the interval and thanked me so much. Thats the last time we spoke. But you know guys that i would have loved to have taken her but shes with her OM now.
Nothing else i can do. I have regular contact with her brother and pregnant g/f and also every few months I have see her parents.
I am still hurting. I still want her back.
My story is here some place but my question is this to ones who are now divorced.
Now I have been apart from my ex wife for just over 3 yrs and i haven't seen her for 15 months is there any hope? That she may have made a mistake on not giving me her soulmate another chance? That the OM is not what she wants.
That even though she knows this OM from work and who she has known for almost 10 years as a colleague will never do her no wrong. Makes her 'safe' and that she says she loves.
Is their an ounce that my ex is still angry and hurting and sub consciously punishing me. That deep down she loves me but her feelings are buried deep.
That maybe bridges have burnt down and can't be fixed so she carries on living with this OM and just accepts it?
Please somebody tell me they are in a similiar situation and tell me if after a few years the fog clears and its YOU she really wants...and that you have gotten back together .. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
