Im a small busted woman pretty with a few extra pounds that I need to shed.. this is my concern: when I met my husband ( we met on line dating service) he expressed his likes for a busty woman his ex was a 38dd.. and his last girlfriend was a 36d and a past stripper!!! he asked me when dateing if I would ever consider getting a boob job I am a 34a but was never concerned Ive thought about it.. we married and I thought he had excepted me for who and what I am and have but he is pushing the boob thing getting on the net seaching the plastic surgery sites wanting me to get 34d's but the thing is we cant afford it and all he does is drool over women that have boobs its making me self consious and I feel less of a woman.. he wont even look at me naked its like it makes him sick to see me.. now I find myself hiding my body from him.. I want to be sexy and a turn of to him... but I am stuck because I cant get the financeing or the money to have this done and I dont even know how to start dieting i need to loose at least 15lbs can someone please help me with diet tips that have worked for you?? why are men so hung up on boobs!! could you imagine if we were on men to get penis enlargments and stared at mens crouches all the time it would devistate them....<p>[ February 27, 2002: Message edited by: watergirl ]</p>

I have had an augmentation and I absolutely LOVE my breasts!!! iN FACT, fRIDAY, i AM HAVING THEM ENLARGED EVEN MORE!! But I did not do it for my husband, I did it in spite of him although he loves them now. If you are going to do it, do it for yourself. As far as dieting, why don't you start writing down everything you eat, and watch your fat and calorie intake. Also, start moving, go for walks, get on the stair master or join a gym, something you enjoy, you will feel so much better and confident!!! Good Luck. P.S. I'm a personal trainer and if you need advice, let me know!

Delicia,<p>Thank you for you response I will try what you have suggested I do have a question.. why do you want bigger implants? If you dont mind me asking what size are you now and what are you getting? Ive been to my consult and he thinks the 34d would be perfect I wanted 34dd and he thought that would be to much and make me look heavy. I dont know when I will be able to afford them but I want them now its driving me nuts

i WANT A BOOB JOB SO BAD, BUT FOR MYSELF. i HAVE NICE BOOBS, BUT HAVE HAD 2 BABIES, SO I WANT MY BEFORE BABY BOOBIES, WITH JUST A TOUCH OF ENHANCEMENT. FINANCING IS PART OF MY PROBLEM ALSO. BUT IF YOU WOULD CONSIDER IT FOR YOUR H, I JUST DONT SEE WHERE THAT IS WRONG. WE ALL WANT TO MAKE OUR S HAPPY. MOST MEN ARE 'BOOB' MEN, AND I THINK ITS ONLY HUMAN FOR HIM TO NOTICE BIG BOOBS, BUT RUDE TO DROOL IF YOU ARE AROUND. DO WHAT WILL TRULY MAKE YOU HAPPY.
ABOUT THE DIET IF ALL YOU NEED TO LOOSE IS 15 LBS, I ADVISE DRINK 8 GLASSES OF WATER A DAY, EXERCISE AT LEAST 3 TIMES A WEEK, AND JUST WATCH WHAT YOU EAT. 15 LBS. IS NOT MUCH. THATS ABOUT WHAT I HAVE LEFT TO LOOSE!
AS FAR AS THE PENIS REMARK, I CANT STOP LAUGHING!!
GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!
HEATHER [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img]

Hello Watergirl! I see nothing wrong with implants BUT I would NOT do it for him. He is not being fair or loving. How would he feel if you brought home a p**** pump because you feel he is too small?<p>As your partner he should love and encourage you and nurture you. He isn't doing that. You don't even feel sexy anymore. That is not right.<p>If it were me (and I know it's not) I would do this for me and ONLY me! <p>BTW, I used to be a D and I've always had a small frame. I was a size 7/8. But I was one of those "fat skinny" people. My belly was chunky and I wasn't tone. I started losing weight (20 pounds) then started weight training after that. I gained the pounds back but not the fat. I'm now a size 2/3. BUT I lost a cup size. So I just wanted you to think about that. Sometimes when women lose weight, they lose it up there too.<p>Love,
Clear

I went from am a to a double D about six months ago, had my surgery today to make them bigger and owww! it hurt, but i just thought that I will probably not do this again for another 10 years, so... I guess I just got used to them and just wanted them bigger. Funny but I am more modest now than I was before. First of all I am married, but qalso I think I paid so much, you are not gonna' get an easy peak. I am pretty small, I teach aerobics and weight training, and when I was young I had big boobs, so maybe I was after that again. My husband liked them fine before, but I wanted them bigger for me. I would never do this for a man, but I am in front of a lot of people all the time, so I figured it would look better, but I am ALWAYS honest with my students. For instance, on e person asked me what can I do to make my chest look like that and I said, "Pay 5,000 !" If you decide to do it, do it for yourself!!!! redhotgirl76@hotmail.com

Hi,
Well, I guess a man better get in on this on too! A problem I see with you situation is the emphesis your H is placing on your figure rather than on you. Don't get me wrong here, both are important, but it seems like he is devalueing you because of your size, and holding out approval and love only if you go for the operation. If this is true than larger breasts will not cure the problem; he will find something else to be critical of. <p>The question I would ask him is this: Are you substituting breast size for real intimacy and love? I cannot imagine placing this type of pressure on my W, to the point of obviously looking at other women in her presence.<p>On the positive note, my W had an enlargement due to total loss of breast material after nursing our first child. We have NEVER regreted the decision. She went from a 34 less-than-A to 36C/D, and we love it. Her's have lasted for 20 years with little problem, and we would do it again if we had to. It helped her self-image and helped our marriage. She successfully nursed 4 more children after the operation, too.<p>OK let me take some flack here women. I have to disagree with you that the only reason you should do this is for yourself. My W did it for both of us. Love for your H is a good reason to want to help and please him - of course within reason. Yea, if the tables were turned I would do what was needed for my W's pleasere too, and for mine as well. It doesn't have to be either/or, but both/and.<p>
Well, I will hunker down and prepare to duck!

Ok here is the perfect solution.<p>The next time you have sex with him, right before, pull out a tape measure. [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] <p>When he asks what you are doing..tell him that you have always wanted a guy with a size 10" penis. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] If he questions this, tell him that he can have surgery to enhance himself. That the two of you can have the surgery together and maybe even get a discount [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by rjd:
<strong>Hi,
Well, I guess a man better get in on this on too! A problem I see with you situation is the emphesis your H is placing on your figure rather than on you. Don't get me wrong here, both are important, but it seems like he is devalueing you because of your size, and holding out approval and love only if you go for the operation. If this is true than larger breasts will not cure the problem; he will find something else to be critical of. <p>The question I would ask him is this: Are you substituting breast size for real intimacy and love? I cannot imagine placing this type of pressure on my W, to the point of obviously looking at other women in her presence.<p>On the positive note, my W had an enlargement due to total loss of breast material after nursing our first child. We have NEVER regreted the decision. She went from a 34 less-than-A to 36C/D, and we love it. Her's have lasted for 20 years with little problem, and we would do it again if we had to. It helped her self-image and helped our marriage. She successfully nursed 4 more children after the operation, too.<p>OK let me take some flack here women. I have to disagree with you that the only reason you should do this is for yourself. My W did it for both of us. Love for your H is a good reason to want to help and please him - of course within reason. Yea, if the tables were turned I would do what was needed for my W's pleasere too, and for mine as well. It doesn't have to be either/or, but both/and.<p>
Well, I will hunker down and prepare to duck!</strong><hr></blockquote>

GURL THE HELL WITH HIM. THAT'S UNBELIEVABLE HOW HE WOULD DARE TREAT YOU THAT WAY. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU BECAUSE HE HASN'T ACCEPTED YOU. IF YOU WERE TO EVER MAKE A CHANGE (PHYSICALLY) DO IT FOR YOU NOT BECAUSE OTHER PEOPLE DO IT OR BECAUSE HE WILL "LOVE U MORE" I WAS MARRIED AND MY HUSBAND WAS SHORTER THAN I AM AND I ALMOST ENDED THE REALTIONSHIP WHEN WE WERE ENGAGED BUT I REALIZED THAT I REALLY LOVED HIM AND B/C OF HIS HEIGHT I WAS NOT ABOUT TO LEAVE HIM FOR THAT MUCH LESS MAKE HIM GO THROUGH SOME SURGICAL PROCEDURE JUST SO THAT I WON'T BE EMBARRASSED TO HAVE HIM NEXT TO MY SIDE. NO WOMAN YOU NEED TO TELL HIM STRAIGHT! IF YOU WANT TO DO IT BY ALL MEANS DO SO IF NOT THEN DON'T. MAKE A CHANGE THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY IN THE LONG RUN NOT JUST AT THE MOMENT.
P.S. THERE ARE PILLS THAT ENALRGE YOUR BREASTS YOU COULD THIS INFO IN THE BACK COVER OF SOME MAGAZINES LIKE VOGUE/MADEMOISELLE ANDTHE LIKE.
LOVE YOURSELF
PEACE

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by hddavis:
<strong>i WANT A BOOB JOB SO BAD, BUT FOR MYSELF. i HAVE NICE BOOBS, BUT HAVE HAD 2 BABIES, SO I WANT MY BEFORE BABY BOOBIES, WITH JUST A TOUCH OF ENHANCEMENT. FINANCING IS PART OF MY PROBLEM ALSO. BUT IF YOU WOULD CONSIDER IT FOR YOUR H, I JUST DONT SEE WHERE THAT IS WRONG. WE ALL WANT TO MAKE OUR S HAPPY. MOST MEN ARE 'BOOB' MEN, AND I THINK ITS ONLY HUMAN FOR HIM TO NOTICE BIG BOOBS, BUT RUDE TO DROOL IF YOU ARE AROUND. DO WHAT WILL TRULY MAKE YOU HAPPY.
ABOUT THE DIET IF ALL YOU NEED TO LOOSE IS 15 LBS, I ADVISE DRINK 8 GLASSES OF WATER A DAY, EXERCISE AT LEAST 3 TIMES A WEEK, AND JUST WATCH WHAT YOU EAT. 15 LBS. IS NOT MUCH. THATS ABOUT WHAT I HAVE LEFT TO LOOSE!
AS FAR AS THE PENIS REMARK, I CANT STOP LAUGHING!!
GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!
HEATHER [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] </strong><hr></blockquote>

Thank you everyone for your replys..... all of you have brought some perspective to my problems.. Im going to do the boob thing when I can save the money for it I have already been to my consult. all I need to do is loose the 15 lbs before may and then I want to loose another 10 lbs but Im haveing a hard time getting started my husband is a sweets freak and likes to go grocery shopping with me.. uugg he buys all kinds of junk food I feel doomed but I guess I just need to set my mind and be strong willed not a easy task... but I need to feel and look sexy again and with the boobs wola......

You can do it!!!! Have you ever tried Jazzercise? Why don't you check into that? It is soooo much fun! Good luck with the boobs!! You will love them, I promise! Maybe then you won't want you man! Oops, did I say that? I am so totally joking!!! You will both enjoy them! [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img]

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Delicia:
<strong>You can do it!!!! Have you ever tried Jazzercise? Why don't you check into that? It is soooo much fun! Good luck with the boobs!! You will love them, I promise! Maybe then you won't want you man! Oops, did I say that? I am so totally joking!!! You will both enjoy them! [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] </strong><hr></blockquote><p>Delicia,<p>Im going to do the taebo thing I have all the tapes its has worked for me in the past along with a low carb diet.. so tell me do the boobs make you feel powerful? How long do they hurt like hell? and how do people react with the new tranfermation? I work in a office of 5 men!!! I look foward to bying bras that arnt padded and pretty and wearing cloths that fit instead of trying to hide what I dont have.. and wearing sexy lingerie for my husband and him actually getting turned on!!! I thing they will give me confidence and help me to feel sexy.. I dont want to give up my husband we are best friends and we have so much fun together couldnt give that up... oh and how long are you in surgery?

They do make me feel great!! Honestly I felt really good before, but just knew that they would enhance what I already had, and boy did they!!! It was weird at first because I knew everybody could tell, like at the grocery store we shop at, it was like one day I walked in flat and the next time i had HUGE boobs! I went from not filling out an A cup to a double D! At work it was really funny, like I said, I teach Jazzercise, and it would be really obvious when I got up on stage in front of 50 people that knew me for such a long time, so I told them a few months ahead of time, and we even had a party with a boob cake and everything. So when I came back everyone wanted to see! did NOT show them naked, I'm too modest for that. It was weird teaching with them, and jumping, oye!! I was in surgery for about three hours, they went in under the arm pit. I was out of work for 4 weeks, but that is because of the physical job that I do. I was in pain for a few weeks, but that is because I could not be still! I had them made bigger last Friday, so I am out again for 2 weeks, but it was not so bad this time, they went in through my nipple. They just filled up the bags more. They give really great pain pills, so you should have a pretty good recovery. Just make sure you really check out the doctor, and the type of procedure he or she does. You'll be fine!! It is so great to actually not have people look at my eyes all the time!!! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]