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Well we've been out to dinner tonight. Nice and friendly as usual... We've spoken on the phone monday and tuesday nights as well.
This is all taking its toll on me, I just do not understand what is going on in her head.
She drives over here about 3 times a week, never seems all that excited about coming, but she does. She never invites me over there now, I haven't been in the house for almost 3 months.
Zero affection. Zero "us" talk, Zero "future" talk, just acceptance of the way it is. I get a goodbye hug, but the cheek presented when I give her a kiss.
She's looking forward to the weekend away, has never mentioned any "rules" for when we're away, but I know that she will know I've booked only 2 rooms.
Why does she bother? I'm tired.
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Hello all.
Well afraid I'm not at all impressed with this new board, I just couldn't get my old username to work, so here I am with a new login..
Anyway, an update. My W is now my girlfriend! We have decided to give it a try and see if we can make a go of things again.
A lot has happened in the last few days/weeks. Briefly we were getting on fine but not progressing much. A one day plan B broke through the barriers and propelled us from friends to being in a relationship instantly.
We seem to have put the past behind us (for the moment anyway), no doubt we will have to address a few things one way or another, but it's going great.
Thanks to all that give support here. For new people, don't lose hope, read and listen and above all believe it when you're told it takes patience, patience and patience!
Graeme
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Hi all. I'm home. I moved back six weeks ago (it feels like I've never been away). Things are difficult at times with us both being used to being on our own & we have to continually remind ourselves to spend quality time together, but we'll get there. We are far stronger and closer than when we broke up 4 years ago.
Thanks everyone...
In the UK
graemepirie6 at hotmail.com
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Congratulations! That's wonderful.
Divorced.
2 Girls
Remarried 10/11/08
Widowed 11/5/08
Remarrying 12/17/15
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