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I'm not sure what to do, we had a talk last nite and he said he wants to be free. He has cheated on me twice. I have forgiven and not brought it up again. He says he doesn't know what he wants and that he loves me very much. He doesn't want to hurt me anymore. I didn't beg him to stay, but I didn't help him pack either. He stayed... We have been married for 8 years. We have a set of twins and were only 19 when we got married. Things have been rough. I know the feelings he is having, i've been there, but I stuck it out and it always got better for me. I love him very much... What do I do?
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. Do you think that he is seeing another woman?
Start in Plan A. You can read all about it on the link in my signature line.
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I know he's not seeing another woman right now. He admitted last nite he doesn't want to leave, he just wants to have casual sex with someone else. I think i'm married to a sex addict. I told him that everyone has had thoughts but knows where "the line" is and that it shouldn't happen. I have laid hands on his head and heart and prayed for him, while he's asleep. I also need prayers for me to be strong thru this. I love him so much and want to move on past this with him. He has also made future plans with me.
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