It is very, very important that you know if your character is suitable for long term living together wirh the character of your partner. And with the character of your child.
Mention your date of birth (with year and m/f) and I'll give the insight with some good advivce, if needed. Bye, Jaap Hillen

BB
You are born in 1961 in the year of the OX. He58: DOG. On my "Character Combination Card" is mentioned for long term living together of
OX-wife with DOG-man "difficult",
but possible, as long as she contents herself with running a home. Both are loyal and will take their conjugal duties seriously.Their difficulties could arise from her overbearing attitude and rigid opinions. He prefers free speech and equality and may not humor the narrow-minded Ox for too long. She may resent his overdirect and outspoken ways; she can nurse grievances for a long time. They both shun pettiness and injustice, but are sometimes guilty of these faults themselves. A relationship that needs a lot of understanding and compromise.
Why didn't you mention the date of birth of your children for the "Parent-Child" combination.
Any questions? Bye, Jaap Hillen

I'll bite here is both

mine: male Feb 4 1961

her: female(of course) March 3 1968

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She is born in 1968, in the year of the Monkey. He61, of before Febr 21: Rat.
Monkey-wife with Rat-man "good"..
The Monkey will be happy with the Rat. The Rat is fascinated by the Monkey and will forgive her anything. Strongly compatible as he will fall for her charm and ingenuity and she will find his go-getter attitude very admirable. They are both achievement-conscious and will push each other up the ladder of succes. They are not hypersensitive and can accept each other's faults with understanding. They could work together or choose separate paths or careers without any trouble. Likewise, they will be able to smooth out any rough spots in their reltionship.
Monkey and Rat belong together (with Dragon) to the same trio, the trio of initiators; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties. Bye, Jaap Hillen

Gee, You couldn't decribe us any better though knowing she is a little monkey at times is alright but me being a Rat is not what I call the most flattering thing that has been said to me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Thanks for the input and alittle confindance building here.

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I'm intrigued....

Me: January 19, 1969
Him: October 27, 1970

Me, too....

Me - 4/28/66
Him - 6/9/61

I appreciate your insight!

KARY
You are born in 1969 before 17 February: MONKEY. He70: DOG
Monkey-wife with Dog-man "perhaps".
Maybe .... with reservations. They are both cynical and without illusion. If both are generous and forgiving enough to discount the othert's frailties. She will admire the Dog for his sensible approach and logical outlook; no one knows the value of intelligence more than she. He, on the other hand, sees her as a capable go-getter and will appreciate her witty and charming personality. She is the more materialistic of the two and he is more idealistic. She values tangible wealth. He puts his principles first. Together they could contently travel the middle of the road.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

LOST
You are born in 1966, in the year of the HORSE. He61: OX.
Horse-wife with Ox-man "difficult"
They don't really understand each other. The female Horse, independant and emotional, fears the Ox. She'll suffer.
Not many favorable aspects for this match. She is carefree and uninhibited and he is industrious and down to earth. He wants a well organized and pleasant home and she is too restless und busy to stay pinned down. She needs freedom and diversion. He cannot comprehend her instability and lack of devotion to him. Difficult for either to find complete harmony. The conservative and authoritative Ox is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The Ox is the boss!
Bye, Jaap Hillen

Can I get in on this? Me: 4-22-65
Her 5-30-66

This character thing has me intrigued as well.

i'll hop on too...

me 11-14-78
wife 6-2-80

I will bite

me - f - 10/02/58

him - m - 04/11/50

All right, I'll bite:

Me: March 3, 1968
Wife: June 15, 1969

Ok, me next, please.

Me- 6-17-64

Him 03-27-62

Thanks, C

PMILLER
She is born in 1966, in the year of the HORSE. He65: SNAKE.
On the "Character Combination Pocket Card" is mentioned for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with SNAKE-man "difficult"
The Horse is amorous, but faithful. When love has gone, the Horse goes too. Each has a different approach to life. He is cautious, tenacious and strong-willed, his goals are long term. She is adventurous, mercurial and impatient. She cares more for the joys of the moment. He is consistent in his endeavors; she is impulsive, quick-witted but inconsistent. He finds her irresponsible and hard to keep up with, while she dislikes his serious, calm and deliberate mental deductions. Not a very satisfying union for either. Bye, Jaap Hillen

BRENTINSC
She is born in 1980, in the year of the MONKEY. He78: HORSE.
Monkey-wife with Horse-man "perhaps".
Not advised. They'll never understand each orther. Both are adaptable and intelligent enough to leap over obstacles barring their progress. But their very similarities may breed mutual contempt. Because, just as he is partical and opportunistic, she can be equally unscrupulous. She is versatile and adroit and he may irritate her by his shrewd and mercurial movements. The Monkey is bright and beguiling while the Horse is equally witty and persuasive. They may end up trying to con each other into submission.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

UNIQUE
You are born in 1958, in the year of the DOG. He50: TIGER.
DOG-wife with TIGER-man "good"
This could be good. They would share the same ideals, fight the same battles. But they might forgot to love each other.
Dog and Tiger belong together (with Horse) to the same trio, the trio of the doers; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
An ideal marriage combination of two charming, attractive and humanitarian signs. He is passionate and animated. She is loyal, understanding and helpful. The Tiger is impulsive and impatient; the Dog is logical and clear-headed enough to advise him without getting personal. He admires and respects her loyalty and good sense and she will not try to monopolize his affections. Each is warm and responsive to other's needs without invading his or her privacy. A very satisfactory arangement for both sides.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

Please I still love my exH and hope for he'll be back some day-can it be?

me-f Dec 20th 1958

exH March 4th 1959

his new wife Sept 3rd 1968

and if you have a bit more time, i met a man still can't say I am in love with him but maybe.... he: April 1st 1943

If I expect too much, I'll understand.
If not: thank you so much

D

HASATUDE
She is born in 1969, in the year of the ROOSTER. He68: MONKEY
Rooster-wife with Monkey-man "perhaps"
Both are ambitious and crave acclaim and recognition. These two materialistic and similarly powerful personalities may clash more often than they cooperate if they insist on maintaining their affections. The Monkey man likes to get things done with a minimum of fuss and supervision. He prides himself on his ingenuity and innate capabilities. The Rooster is efficient and fastidious. She's prone to looking over his shoulder and picking up on his imperfections. They try each other's patience and endurance. He cannot stand her questioning and love for argument. She finds him too sure of himself and conceited to pay her much mind, let alone heed the advice she readily dishes out. Both are going to find the ride pretty rough unless they are willing to admit to some of their inherent shortcomings and meet the other halfway.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

FIREFLY
You are born in 1964, in the year of the DRAGON. He62: TIGER.
DRAGON-wife with TIGER-man "perhaps".
Two strong characters face to face. The female Dragon will be useful to the Tiger, bringing him both prudence and the quality of looking before he leaps.
Both are energetic, ambitious and brave. They could overstimulate each other in the proces. With both of them being innovative and daring, there may be no one to finish the job after their mutual initial enthusiasm fades away. The Dragon wife has aspirations for leadership and will fight the Tiger for dominance. He will let her get away with some things so long as she does not restrict his actions and expect him to be docile. They will only cooperate succesfully after much adjustment on both sides. Bye, Jaap Hillen