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This looks fun....

Me - 11/22/66
WH - 1/29/67
DS - 5/11/92

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do ours too
me 10-19-52
wife 12-29-61
also ow 08-16-49

just wanted to see how ow would have been if she hadn't dumped me

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Very kind of you to do this!

May I try?

Male: Oct 30 61
Female: Feb 7 55

Thanks very much!

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She is born on 28/11/74, in the year of the TIGER. He on 22/4/75, in the year of the CAT. Son 17/9/00: DRAGON.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
TIGER-wife with CAT-man 'perhaps'
The female Tiger is a complex creature, but the Cat-man is flexible.... and a spotter. The Tiger may be too strong and colorful for the quiet and impeccable Cat. On the other hand, she finds him impersonal and lacking in emotions. He could help her solve her problems but she may be too inattentive to listen. She could build up his confidence and assertiveness but he is not too keen on her method of teaching. They tend not to mix well together as, in the final analysis, what one likes, the other shuns.
In 'Parent-Child':
TIGER with DRAGON-child 'good'
Everything in favor of this combination for bringing out the best in the child!
CAT with DRAGON-child 'good'
On one condition (that the Dragon leaves well enough alone at home and doesn't fuss), the Cat is prepared to tolerate the brilliance of his child. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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She is born on 3/6/55, in the year of the GOAT. He 2/6/44: MONKEY. Son 28/2/78: HORSE. Son 6/6/83: PIG.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with MONKEY-man 'perhaps'
The Goat lady loves to play house but she may make too many demands on the wily Monkey. He may be flattered by her attentiveness but still finds her flaws outweighing her virtues. She, on the other hand, is no match for the calculating and evasive Monkey, who may not always take her seriously. The Goat stands to lose more in this bargain, as the Monkey, will exploit her kind and generous nature. Each is on a different wavelength in this union.
In "Parent-Child':
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'.
Yes, as long as the Goat doesn't count on the Horse too much to look after her in her declining years!
GOAT with PIG-child 'good'
Hah! Finally, it's the piglet who comes to the Goat's rescue. He loves her! Goat and Pig belong together (with Cat) to the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
MONKEY with HORSE-child 'difficult'
Hm'n ...Horse junior, although he's clever enough, mistrusts the cunning to which, perhaps, he'll fall a victim.
MONKEY-father with PIG-son 'good'
The Monkey is very fond of his piglet. He'll teach him to be less gullible.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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She is born on 22/11/66, in the year of the HORSE. He is born in 1967 before 9 february and belongs also to 1966, the year of the HORSE. DS 11/5/92: MONKEY.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with HORSE-man 'good'
These two tempestuous lovers will be saved by their egoism. Teamwork and cooperation are possible because they can work at similar speeds. It would be better if they were born in different seasons so as to provide more variety to their relationship. Both are passionate but independent and restless. Their witty, lively, materialistic and adventurous personalities may make life very hectic but this does not guarantee that they will get anywhere unless one of them is skillful enough to control the other . They are both bored by routine and restrictions.
In "Parent-Child':
HORSE with MONKEY-child 'good'
Nobody could care less! No problems here, then. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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He is born on 19/10/52, in the year of the DRAGON. She 29/12/61 in the year of the OX with subcharacter Ox. She 16/8/49: also in the year of the OX with subcharacter Monkey.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
DRAGON-man with OX-wife 'difficult'.
No. There'd be a continuous fight over who was the boss. And the Dragon would get bored. Both are dutiful but stubborn. This factor could make or break the marriage. He works for glory and recognition while she has to see the material benefits. If his ventures do not turn up hard cash, she could be harsh and unsympathetic. He is exciting and extroverted while she can be too conforming and conservative. He needs love and admiration; she can be cold and undemonstrative. A good deal of compromising needed. But if both parties try hard and succeed, they will be imensely proud of and dedicated to each other. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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She is born on 7/2/55, in the year of the GOAT. He 30/10/61, in the year of the OX.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
GOAT-wife with OX-man 'difficult'.
The Ox cannot stand imagination and will not tolerate at any price the wearing of horns! They'd be unhappy. Goat and Ox are each other's opposites. The conservative and authoritarian Ox is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The artistic and creative Goat is a lightweight in dominance. TheOx is the boss. He accumulates and she spends.. The Ox is strong and decisive; she is week and insecure. She loves being sheltered and reassured, but Mr. Ox may not be so obliging as he expects a great deal from others and his Goat wife will become depressed when he exacts too much discipline and self-denial from her. Both may find the going rough at times. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Plese try

Me sept 25th 64
H: jan 12th 71
Son: june 17th 99

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You are born on 9/25/64, in the year of the DRAGON.
He is born in 1971 before January 27, still in the year of the DOG.
Son 6/17/99, in the year of the CAT.
On my 'Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
DRAGON-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
Ai-ai-ai! Dragon and Dog are each other's opposites. Clashing characters. No, the Dog is not the man to admire things blindly; he has beter things to do. Each may have the wrong chemistry for the other. Their basic dispositions are uncomplementary and they may opt to disperse their energies in different directions. Both have leadership abilities but in totally different directions. The Dog loves cooperation and may resent the Dragon's audacious, high-handed and overpowering tactics. She may find him taciturn and erratic if she pushes him too much; the Dog has a reputation for being pugnacious and acidly sharp when hurt. Neither can conform easily to the other's wishes and this could only be a love-hate relationship at its best.
In "Parent-Child":
DRAGON with CAT-son 'good'
The Dragon may be a little disappointed by the apparent lack of ambition in the Cat, but there will be no problems.
DOG with CAT-son 'very good'
They get on famously together.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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I have seen these (in chinese restaurants) How do you determine "character" from dates?

I'll play (I think H and I ARE NOT compatible)

Me F 8-19-60
He M 11-19-54

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I have seen these (in chinese restaurants) How do you determine "character" from dates?

I'll play (I think H and I ARE NOT compatible)

Me F 8-19-60
He M 11-19-54

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I'm interested in reading what your cards say about my relationship/children . . .

me 5-15-1955
h 11-05-1954

d 5-12-76
d 8-04-77
s 12-03-78

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You are born on 8/19/60, in the year of the RAT. He 11/19/54, in the year of the HORSE.
In my book 'The Character Combination Card' is mentioned for long term living together of
RAT-wife with HORSE-man 'very difficult'
Ai-ai-ai! Rat and Horse are each other's opposites. Clashing characters. (always at a difference of 6 years). No, too many emotional problems. No good could come of it. He requires physical as well as mental freedom. She is levelheaded, industrious and affectionate. She will be content to stay in a close-knit family; he must constantly explore uncharted seas. She is resourceful and thrifty. He is adventurous, flirtatious and changeable. They will not see eye to eye on how things should be done because of the differences in their temperament. The Rat views the Horse as selfish and inconsiderate. He finds her too bossy and possessive. After careful appraisal, neither may find each other appealing enough to join forces permanently. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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You are born on 5/7/81, in the year of the GOAT. He 11/5/54: HORSE.
Daughter 5/12/76: DRAGON.
Daughter 8/4/77: SNAKE.
Son 12/3/78: HORSE.
GOAT-wife with HORSE-man 'good'
They won't bore each other; there will be problems enough to keep the Horse in love, and the Goat will enjoy the security. She is delicate, sensitive and kind-hearted. He is cheerful and partical enough to inject humor and purpose into her life. He can be easygoing with the gentle Goat, who is compassionate enough to overlook his selfishness if he can liven up her moods and teach her the quickest route around her magnified problems. He will be grateful for a pleasant and warm home and will find the Goat concerned enough about him to adjust her way of life to his inherent needs. Each will complement the other and this could be a very happy marriage indeed.
In 'Parent-Child":
GOAT with DRAGON-child 'good'
A lovely picture. Mother Goat and Dragon son is perfect.
GOAT with SNAKE-child 'good'
The Goat allows herself, willingly, to be monopolized by her child, on condition that she reciprocates
GOAT with HORSE-child 'good'
Yes, as long as the Goat doesn't count on the Horse too much to look after her in her declining years.
HORSE with DRAGON-child 'good'
Whatever happens, all will be well.Each will live his own life.
HORSE with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge her fahter severely, and put him in the wrong in case of conflict.
HORSE with HORSE-child 'good'
They understand each other so well that it could mean trouble: each counts on the other too much, perhaps.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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o.k. - me 8/15/1957
husband 7/08/1958
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My God! You couldn't have hit on our personalities and "problems" any better!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

He is selfish!!!! Flirtatious!!!!!!!!Ever changing!!!!!!!! and constantly needs EXCITEMENT!!I hate it. The profile fit for me also

22 years later and she says "Oh, now I see- <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
His A blew any and all compassion for his "character" right out of the water for me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Thanks a mil- Can others give feedback on how close they fit the "profiles"

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This will be interesting

Me: 12/2/56

H 4/4/59

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Thank you for doing this
Me (female) 10/10/53
Him (WS) 5/2/52

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If we're not wearing you out too much, could you do:

female 12/29/67
male 12/20/62
D 3/23/87
S 8/14/88
S 3/14/90
S 12/25/92

Thank you! Mere

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