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She is born in 1963 before January 25, so still in the year of the TIGER.
He 10/2/59, in the year of the PIG.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
TIGER-wife with PIG-man 'good'
Why not? Just as long as the Tiger, without knowing it, does not take advantage of the Pig's good nature. They have a strong desire to please the other. Both are affectionate, dynamic and progressive in their basic attitude and will complement each other. He is kind and understanding enough to cope with the unpredictable and exciting moods of the Tiger, while she finds him devoted, courageous and unselfish. The Tiger is usually repentant for her outbursts when she meets no opposition, and the Pig's good humor and compassionate ways will bring out the best in her and make her more compliant to his wishes. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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that is amazing! It seems so true. thanks!

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Anything for a smile!

Me 1966
Wife 1968

Thanks for all your hard work in doing this.

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If she is born in 1968 after January 29: MONKEY
If he is born in 1966 after January 21: HORSE.
MONKEY-wife with HORSE-man 'perhaps'
Not advised They will never understand each other. Both are adaptable and intelligent enough to leap over obstacles barring their progress. But their very similarities may breed mutual contempt. Because, just as he is practical and opportunistic, she can be equally unscrupulous. She is versatile and adroit and he may irritate her by his shrewd and mercurial movements. The Monkey is bright and beguiling while the Horse is equally witty and persuasive. They may end up trying to con each other into submission.
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ok,I'm in-
H-12/18/57
me-11/13/63
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You are born on 11/13/63, in the year of the CAT. He 12/18/57: ROOSTER.
Son 9/20/83: PIG. Son 5/4/85: OX.
In my book 'The Character Combination Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
CAT-wife with ROOSTER-man 'difficult'
Ai-ai-ai! Cat and Rooster are each other's opposites (always at a difference of 6 years). Clashing characters.
Not at any price. Even if they are not important, the Cat will be exasperated by the Rooster's excesses. They are unlikely to ever find their ideal love in each other. Their personalities may clash strongly because both are vexed by each other's negative traits. He is outspoken, exacting and overzealous in his cutting criticism. She is an artistic and reticent intellectual who may be a bit self-indulgent and unwilling to work hard. When the industrious and ruthlessly efficient Rooster gets through with her, she may feel like a victim of the Inquisition. Needless to say, the Cat will be defiant and uncommunicative. The Rooster's lack of tact and indelicate ways are not intentional, but he cannot avoid hurting the Cat, who thrives on sympathy and consideration.
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CAT-parent with PIG-child 'good'
But the sentimental Pig could suffer from the Cat's indifference. Cat and Pig belong (with Goat) to the same trio, the trio of the creatives, of the lightweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
CAT-parent with OX-child 'perhaps'
The Cat regards this strange child with astonishment and anxiety. In fact the Cat can't stop teasing the child.
ROOSTER-parent with PIG-child 'difficult'
The Pig is patient, but he'll act according to his lights. And don't let the Rooster think he's leading him by the snout!
ROOSTER-parent with OX-child 'good'
Yes. Despite an occasional peck at random, the Rooster will allow himself to be led up the garden path. Rooster and Ox belong (with Snake) to the same trio, the trio of the thinkers, of the heavyweights in dominance; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Oh my!! Thank you -this is EXACTLY how life is at our house. WE have our work cut out for us!
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please please please jaap help me out too
mine (F) 31/1/57
his (M) 07/04/58
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You are born on 31/1 in 1957 on New Year's day, in the year of the ROOSTER. (one day earlier in the year of the monkey).
He 7/4/58, in the year of the DOG.
For long term living together of
ROOSTER-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
A cool to moderate coexistence is in store for this couple. Both are discriminating and forthright souls who may be easily displeased with each other's faults. Normally, they may strive harder to be more agreable, but this match could bring out their most offensive traits, making them willful and uncompromising. Both are too quick to retaliate when challenged and can be fierce fighters. The Dog is nice and easygoing only as long as you keep out of his hair. The Rooster is virtuous and equally sincere in her efforts, but she has much too rigid an outlook to suit the Dog. She will make him feel like she is out to reform him and he will never stand for that.
(monkey-wife with dog-man 'perhaps'. may be, with reservations; they are both cynical and without illusions). Bye, Jaap Hillen

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how about me too

me F 9/07/57
husband 2/10/57
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Me:(Female)10/23/71
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Thanks for your help.

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You are born on 9/7/57, in the year of the ROOSTER. He too ROOSTER.
Son 11/9/95, in the year of the PIG
ROOSTER-wife with ROOSTER-man 'difficult'
Life would be impossible! Scenes and tantrums guaranteed all the time. Both are virtuous personalities but this match could provoke an unhealthy 'holier than thou' attitude between these contenders. They are both peevish and often obsessed with their own views and will not pay much heed to the opinions of the other. However, these two are also duty-oriented and have conscientious and responsible natures. Who knows, they may be able to relinquish some of their demanding ways to achieve common goals. Then again, both are argumentative and opinionated, and there may be endless discussions before they sign the Peace Treaty or agree to call a truce.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
ROOSTER-parent with PIG-child 'difficult'
The Pig is patient, but he'll act according to his lights. And don't let the Rooster think he's leading him by the snout!
Make sure that your child never has to ask whether you love him.
Make sure that he never has to feel the need to make a good impression.
CUDDLING!!! LISTENING!!! PRAISE!!!
Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love will bring the child a sense of security.
Do not reproach your child, but express your wishes.
Make sure that your child is certain that you highly esteem it till 18 years, especially till 5 years. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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You are born on 10/23/71, in the year of the PIG. He 10/31/71, in the year of the PIG too.
Daughter is born in 1995 before January 31, still in the year of the Dog.
For long term living together is indicated in 'Life Partner' for.
PIG-wife with PIG-man 'good'
A good match. They'll both make concessions, and they'll get on famously. Being born under the same sign, both will be strong, courageous and modest, but they may lack direction and tenacity and may not able to strengthen each other's weak points. Sincerity and goodwill without resolute and systematic organization could wreak havoc for two such well-meaning people. One of them will have to be unemotional and disciplined enough to face reality and adversity, otherwise their mutual love and loyalty will not be much protection for them.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated for
PIG-parent with DOG-child 'good'
They get on well. The Pig will always back up the Dog in her Causes, but the Pig will make himself unhappy quite often.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Me (wife): 03/27/66
Husband: 12/24/52
Son: 01/02/02

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HI! Would you mind doing mine?

Me: 8/4/1963
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Please add mine to the request list....

<small>[ October 22, 2002, 12:26 PM: Message edited by: Fallen Papa ]</small>

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She is born on 27/3/66, in the year of the HORSE.
He on 12/24/52, in the year of the DRAGON. Son is born in 2002 before February 12, still in the year of the SNAKE.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated in 'Life Partner' for long term living together of
HORSE-wife with DRAGON-man 'perhaps'
All systems go! Provided it lasts, of course.
The serious Dragon may find her restless and not too crazy about a steady diet of housework. Life will be more fruitful and delightful for both if they live in the city and Mrs. Horse keeps a job as well as manages her home. Actually, both parties perform better when given variety and freedom. The constantly aspiring Dragon will find his wife's practicality very profitable, while she finds him strong and reliable.
In 'Parent-Child':
HORSE-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge his mother severely, and put her in the wrong in case of conflict.
DRAGON-parent with SNAKE-child 'good'
Yes. The Snake is wise to the Dragon and understands him, even though he's not going to be taken in himself.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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She is born on 8/4/63, in the year of the CAT. He 9/13/65, in the year of the SNAKE.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated for long term living together of
CAT-wife with SNAKE-man 'good'
Uh uh ... perhaps yes ... as long as it is in slippers (the bitter end for a Snake) and by the fireside. The Snake is forceful and dominant and the well-bred Cat will be receptive to his way of thinking. Both share the same exclusive and refined preferences and these two can strike a harmonious chord mentally and romantically. However, these signs are also basically not so obliging. They may neglect each other in their search for self- expression and gratification of their desires. However, the Cat is not as possessive as the Snake and will not mind very much if he gets wrapped up in his work or cannot pay her too much attention. She will be content so long as he provides her with a lovely home and pays all the bills. A relatively peaceful combination.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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She is born on 10/20/70, in the year of the DOG. He on 8/13/67, in the year of the GOAT.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated for long term living together of
DOG-wife with GOAT-man 'difficult'
No! This would be too much! They are both too pessimistic. It would be sad. This relationship will not work as the Dog is too realistic and will naturally criticize the Goat's indulgence and enumerate his weaknesses, thus making him more pessimistic than ever. She is reasonable and affectionate enough, but not always willing to resort to the little white lies necessary to placate his touchy feelings. He needs a lot of compassion and support to be able to put up his best side forward. She is unsympathetic and hardy and can be irked by his complaining and self-gratification. Not much congeniality here as each tends to bring out the other's negative traits.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Well darn, the challenge gets greater. Time to step up and overcome what must be overcome. Any chance it touches the aspects of the elements.

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