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Please, please do mine, I love this. Me 09/19/71 Him 11/29/66 and son 7/02/01
Thank you, you are so sweet for doing this.

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You are born on 9/19/71, in the year of the PIG.
He on 11/29/66, in the year of the HORSE.
Son 7/2/2001: SNAKE.
On my 'Pocket Card' is indicated for long term living together of
PIG-wife with HORSE-man 'difficult'
The Horse, egoist that he is, takes advantage of the Pig. She'll be unhappy. She is a devoted soul and craves for more togetherness and affection than the self-centered Horse can provide. He is not amused when she is too conforming, and considerate enough to please everyone else besides him. Both may have some difficulty coming to terms with each other's weaknesses.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
PIG-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Ai-ai-ai. Snake and Pig are each other's opposties. The Snake is a thinker and a heavyweight in dominance. The creative Pig is a lightweight in it. The Snake is the boss. This will work , at the Pig's expense. A mother Pig can become a complete slave to a Snake child.
HORSE-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge his father severely, and put him in the wrong in case of conflict.
Make sure that your child never has to ask whether you love him.
Make sure it never has to feel the need to make a good impression.
Cudddling!!! Listening!!! Praise!!!
Do not reproach him, but express your wishes.
Kind and strict. Consistent strictness with love gives the child a sense of security.
Make sure that your child is certain that you highly esteem him, till 18 years, especially till 5 years. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Hi,

Can you do mine?

Mine: 8/14/1976 Male
Hers: 5/24/1974 Female

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She is born on 5/24/74, in the year of the TIGER. He 8/14/76, in the year of the DRAGON
For long term living together of
TIGER-wife with DRAGON-man 'perhaps'
Not a quiet, conventional and uneventful marriage at all. They could provide each other stimulating company if they understand their basic individual need for freedom and expression. The Tiger wife may respect and adore her Dragon spouse but will never give up her own identity. He will be in trouble if he tries to give her obedience training. Both are quick-tempered and will resist being dominated. An adventurous marriage if they can maintain a workable balance.
Yes, and never mind the difficulties. The Dragon knows how to reason with the Tiger, who will listen to his advice, even when it is bad. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Thank you Jaap, the "opposites" in regard to my child really concerns me, as well as the sentence about Mother Pig becoming a slave to The Snake. Somewhere else I read about the realtionship between Snake and Pig and it said that Snakes hate Pigs. Could that be possible? Any other recommendations as far as child rearing goes in those prediciments? I love my little boy so much but I definatly do not look forward to him dominating me or hating me. He is only 15 months but I can see that he is a willfull child, but he is also affectinate with me and playfull.

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If you are still doing this:

Me: 4-29-52
H: 6-26-52
S1: 4-17-76
S2 11-28-77
s3 March 6, 1980

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She is born on 4/15/64, in the year of the DRAGON. He on 3/2/58, in the year of the DOG.
On my 'Character Combination Pocketcard' is indicated for long term living together of
DRAGON-wife with DOG-man 'difficult'
Ai-ai-ai, Dragon and Dog are each other's opposites (always at a difference of 6 years).
Clashing characters.The Dog does not have for the Dragon the admiration that the latter considers to be his due. Each may have the wrong chemistry for the other. Their basic dispositions are uncomplementary and they may opt to disperse their energies in different directions. Both have leadership abilities but in totally different directions. The Dog loves cooperation and may resent the Dragon's audacious, high-handed and overpowering tactics. She may find him taciturn and erratic if she pushes him to much; the Dog has a reputation for being pugnacious and acidly sharp when hurt. Neither can conform easily to the other's wishes and this could only be a love-hate relationship at its best.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Pig-parents and Snake-childern will never, never hate each other if you respect my hints mentioned at the end of my previous message. The reverse is true.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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She is born on 4/29/52, in the year of the DRAGON/Snake. He on 6/26/52, also in the year of the DRAGON/Goat.
Son 4/17/76: DRAGON/Dragon.
Son 11/28/77: SNAKE.
Son 3/6/80: MONKEY.
For long term living together of
DRAGON-wife with DRAGON-man 'difficult'
A real firework display! They'll be perpetually in competition. Not a very peaceful arrangement unless they first agree on their goals. Both are individualistic, strong-willed and aggressive. Mrs. Dragon will not like to be overshadowed; in fact, she may be more assertive than he. Mr. Dragon is masterful and expects to have control, but in this case he may have to surrender some of his rights. Both partners will be wise to maintain their own careers to avoid suppressing each other.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
DRAGON-parent with DRAGON-child
'very good'.!!! Each will be proud of the other.
DRAGON-parent with SNAKE-child 'good'
Yes. The Snake is wise to the Dragon and understands him, even though he is not going to be taken in himself.
DRAGON-parent with MONKEY-child 'good'
Good relationship. The Dragon brings to the Monkey its wisdom and experience if the Monkey needs any. Dragon and Monkey belong together (with Rat) to the same trio, the trio of the initiators; with both other signs in the same trio exist strong ties.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Hey can I get on this too????

We met 1993
We married 1999
My birthday 9-17-1977(wife)
His Birthday 3-31-78
Our sons b-day 5-28-01

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> this will be interesting

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You are born on 9/17/77, in the year of the SNAKE.
He on 3/31/78, in the year of the HORSE.
Son on 5/28/01, in the year of the SNAKE.
For long term living together of
SNAKE-wife with HORSE-man 'perhaps'
If it makes the Snake lady happy, and if she has enough wisdom to allow her to put up with such an existence. An unlikely match. Both are mentally agile and realistic. But while he is mercurial and needs freedom and variety, she can be resistant to change and resentful of his rash and self-centered ways. She may be too determined, private and refined for his strong preferences, and in turn the Snake woman may not find the Horse appetites persistent enough to be worth her while. They both have to be very unselfish to make this marriage work.
In 'Parent-Child' is indicated:
SNAKE-parent with SNAKE-child 'difficult'.
Which one ensnares the other? Better for the young Snake not to stay too long at home..
HORSE-parent with SNAKE-child 'perhaps'
Baby Snake will judge his father severely, and put him in the wrong in case of conflict.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Hallo Jaaphillen
thanks for your not so good response(dog and
rooster - difficult difficult difficult
I salute to that. So it is.
I would like to know my son (twins)
birthday 31/7/1981
thanks a lot. -
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> You are so on target!!!! Whats the best match for a snake? Just so I know down the road <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Thank you I printed that one out.

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Hallo Jaaphillen
I have done a reply not sure if I have pushed the
right buttons but here goes again. Thanks for your
reply (dog and rooster) difficult!!! I salute
to that it is in fact difficult difficult difficult in the full sense of it.
I would like to get some feed- back on my
twins (Sons) date of birth 30/7/1981
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ROOSTER

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Once again coming for your insite through Chinese signs....
Ram Papa
1) Horse Daughter
2) Ram (Goat) Son
3) Golden Boar (Pig) Daughter
4) Ox Daughter
5) Rabbit (Hare) Daughter

<small>[ October 29, 2002, 12:41 PM: Message edited by: Fallen Papa ]</small>

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Mum: ROOSTER
Child: 31/7/81, also the year of the ROOSTER.
(the difference is 2 x 12 years)
ROOSTER-parent with ROOSTER-child 'difficult' under the same roof.. A **** -fight under the same roof. To be avoided under the same roof. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Whats the best match for a SNAKE-wife as Life Partner?!:
'Good': RAT, OX, CAT, DRAGON, ROOSTER.
'Perhaps': HORSE, GOAT, MONKEY, DOG
'Difficult': SNAKE
'Bad': TIGER, PIG
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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I'm very sorry, that I don't understand your indications RAM, GOLDEN BOARD and RABBIT.
May be better to mention the dates of birth.
Bye, Jaap Hillen

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Wife: July 29th, 1972

Husband: August 22, 1973

Any advice?

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You are born on 7/29/72, in the year of the RAT. He on 8/22/73, in the year of the OX.
In 'Life Partner' is indicated for long term living together of
RAT-wife with OX-man 'very good'
A hundred times yes! Undisturbed bliss! The Rat can love in peace and quiet. He is always dependable enough to bring home the bacon and she is loving and doting to cook it just the way he likes it. Very satisfying and rewarding union. He is strong and silent and loves being fussed over and admired by his outgoing wife and she is content with the security and stability he provides. Both will have few complaints. Bye, Jaap Hillen

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