Hi, maybe someone can help me out. I am having a really hard time deciding to go through with anything. I have had my mind made up for the last several months that my H and I need some time away from each other, and some distance. (Because things are just too bad at this time to continue) I can't seem to get enough courage to actually get my things and go. I want to work on it after I rest and get my life back on a steady scale. How do you gather the gumption to go thru with it. I know when I do he is going to cry and say don't go, get unbelievalbly mad, make promises he can't/won't keep, and say I am horrible. Anyone have any encouragment?