well, on tuesday night, me and H went out to dinner for my birthday. i am 25!! finally not an even number anymore, i hate even numbers. wish i could skip them and be an odd number for 2 years. but i guess that is an even number. can't win.<P>this weekend we are going to las vegas. i am so excited. that is where we originally went<BR>to get married, but i chickened out. ha ha. so we ended up getting married a couple of<BR>weeks later here. silly me. so i hope we can have a nice fun, romantic weekend. bring back the old memories.<P>H saw OW at the swap meet on saturday. he was lucky and saw her friend before they<BR>saw him and he hightailed it out of there. just one of the reasons i plan on at least leaving the city and going a couple of hours away, as soon as i finish school. i don't want to run in to her. i hate sharing the same city as her. ick. glad she didn't see him. he was too. lol.<P>i can't wait to get to vegas. we are driving up there tomorrow night and coming back on sunday. got the car and room all reserved, and i am all packed and ready to go!! there are so many new hotels since we last went about 2 years ago. we just love vegas. and luckily it is only a 5 hour drive.<P>otherwise all is well. nothing still from the courts. i could only wish it would all go away, but it won't. maybe she won't take the OC to get it tested.... if wishes came true...none of us would be here. but we are, so we must make the best of it. and luckily we all have eachother.<P>i gotta get back to self tanning, he he, i am white as a ghost and need some color. don't want to blind anyone walking up and down the strip with my pasty white legs, pretty scary.<BR>hope everyone has a good weekend!! see ya'll next week.<P>happy_girl<P><BR>

Hope you and H have a great time and lots of fun! <P>Comfort

Have a great time and win about 1,000,000 for all of us...lol

hi! didn't win anything, but had a wonderful weekend with my hubby and that is more important than anything else i can think of right now. we talked A LOT, about us, marriage in general, everything. it was great. it is about a 5 hour drive from where we live, so we had lots of time to talk.<P>i love him more than ever and i know we can get thru this mess we are in. and we are in it together, and that is what is important. hope ya'll had a good weekend.<P>happy_girl

Happy_girl!<P>Aren't long car trips wonderful things? I find that my H and I talk best when we are travelling a distance together. Even gives us the opportunity to argue and make up before we get out of the car!<P>I am so happy that you and your H are falling in love all over again. I always believe that, despite their imperfections and their bad judgement, those special qualities that made us love these men are still right where we last saw them.<P>Once we clean away some of the tarnish and the unhappiness and uncertainty, we find the love again. I am so glad that you have found yours.<P>God bless you both as you continue this journey TOGETHER!<P>- Heavenly

No you're wrong, Happy Girl...you DID win...and you won big. Maybe not as much as your husband won...he's the biggest winner; he has you.<P>Welcome back<P>Catnip =^^=

Cheers to you and your H!!!!

heavenly, car rides ARE great. maybe it helps that you can't easily get out. he he. i do love my H, don't think i actually ever stopped. we were so early into our marriage when all this happened and i was still in la la land. i was more sad and hurt than anything. and stunned. but i guess love is blind sometimes and that is how it was for me.<P>catnip, thanks for reminding me he is the lucky one. ha ha. though i feel pretty lucky too. i guess we both are.<P>leelee, comfort and brokenwings, thanks again. and i am glad to be back.<P>happy_girl