I don't mean to whine ,but I have received very few responses to my posts .I really need some insight here.Please,some more opinions.

Hey, I read this post and then went back to see original post. You got responses, and from where I sit they were pretty good ones. I do not walk in your shoes currently because we have not contact with OW or OC. My just pays child support via direct deposit. We have never pursued a relationship there, however when the OC is old enough to push for it then is when we will address that. <BR> However when that happens all contact with the OW will via me or nothing will happen. I refuse to allow contact that I am not a part of. I cannot trust this OW for any reason. After 6 years she wrote my H a letter expressing the fact that she is still in love with him and no otther man attracts even now. So I will not give her the chance to try to resurrect anything. My H also has expressed no interest in seeing her or talking to her. He also really wants nothing to with the child. She is her mother's child not his. Our children are his and they are the only children he wants. Just keep posting. You might go back and reply to those who posted on your original post. Have you posted on others' threads, sometims that helps to get responses. Just be patient and yet be proactive. TG

Blue:<P>You are receiving answers to your posts. Many times when several people have responded in kind to the way I would have responded, sometimes I just let it go because the author of the thread is on good hands. If I think of something to add later, I do.<P>Everyone here reads every thread, I believe. Sometimes I just lurk because of time constraints or if I am on my way out the door as I was last week and this. <P>Don't take it personally, Blue. We're glad you are here. Sometimes this site isn't as active as GQ and sometimes this site can be dormant for hours. A few weekends ago there were only a handful of responses to a couple threads. There are not as many of us regularly here as on GQ even though there are far more here than should be...like all of us.<P>Good luck and welcome...you are getting good advice.<P>Catnip =^^=<p>[This message has been edited by catnip (edited October 31, 2000).]