My h rarely ever brings up ow or oc.It is a subject we both avoid.He pays her money ,sees the oc every once in a while ,but we rarely ever sit down and talk about it.He hasn't seen the baby in about 8 weeks, so today I finalyy asked him if there was a problem.He said yes but that he would handle it.I pushed a little and asked if it was money again,and he said no,and again it tis his problem.He has been like this from the beginning.After a while I just get frustrated because I can that b***h telling him that their situation is none of my business.Ithink we need to be united on these things.