Thank you all for your comments. I have tried to talk with him about calling me names- he says a few things about that, but most often- He calls them as he sees them.
It would be hard not to hang around with the friends that he has problems with. Although I may have had instances in the past with them- it would never happen again. Now, all I really need is their friendship.
We have a child together- and it would be very difficult to be apart. I just worry sometimes about what types of things he would tell our daughter when she grows up and if she has more than one partner.
He also threatens that he would get sole custody if we were to seperate.
I want to make things work with him. He used to be a really fun guy- sometimes he still can be, but he tells me I killed that part of him.
What can I do to get that back?
I am trying to make deposits into his Love bank...