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I will be seeing my sil this coming week, two things I need some help with, she and I have never spoken about this, she has known since Nov about oc and she doesn't want to be involved but she has pics of the oc at her house that I need to send back to ow, they were left there by my h in his misguided attempt to get approval from his family about oc, (his mother said he was a sperm donor and his sister doesn't want her kids involved with the whole immoral mess)I do not want to get into this with her because I feel that it really is not her concern but I need the pics and my husband doesn't want to ask for them because then he would have to explain how He and I have talked bla blah, We are tryinng to get past it but some days are harder than others right! any ideas on how to broach the subject but not get into a big discussion about it? please help!!1
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why do you need photos back to return? I think your H should deal with sister, telling her he needs them back, leave it at that, and get on with it. Just a thought.
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H really doesn't care one way or another if the pics are sent back to ow, I do, it is something that I need to do, hard to explain you have to know the ow in my case, but sending pics to her will make her see, she is still under the illusion that my h protects her from me, I will actually be returning these to her front door myself as she feels very safe thinking that h will not tell me where she lives and it really makes me nuts, She is a very sick girl, she tells her grandparents that he is single and too scared to make a commitment to her, she really thinks this, you should hear the things she tells her co workers!
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fizzpop, I understand your need to do whatever you need to do to heal. But seems as if you are adding pain to your situation by not involving husband. I do not have much to suggest-what is your relationship like with sister in law on the best of circumstances?
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My relationship with sil is okay, she is pretty mellow and really doesn't get involved in things, My h would get the pics but I have to do it for me!
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